The Unromantic Lens is a podcast about what happens when love is asked to replace institutions.

We were promised that freeing relationships from tradition would make them healthier, more fulfilling, and more authentic. Instead, dating has become volatile, commitment feels dangerous, and intimacy collapses under expectations it was never meant to carry.

Marriage lost authority. Family lost structure.
Romantic love was promoted to the highest ideal — and then forced to do all the work.

This podcast examines how the shift from duty to desire, from institution to emotion, and from permanence to choice quietly destabilised modern relationships. It treats marriage as infrastructure, family as a stabilising system, and dating as the pressure point where cultural fantasies meet reality.

There’s no advice here. No therapy scripts. No nostalgia for the past.
Just a clear-eyed analysis of how modern love became fragile — not because people are broken, but because the structures that once held intimacy steady were dismantled and never replaced.

If love feels heavier than it should…
If commitment feels like a gamble rather than a foundation…
If family feels both absent and impossible to escape…

This podcast doesn’t reassure you.
It explains what you’re living inside.